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THE GIFT OF SELF-RELIANCE

THE GIFT OF SELF-RELIANCE
March 19, 2025
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THE GIFT OF SELF-RELIANCE

March 19, 2025
The Key to Unstoppable Success

There once was a woman who felt trapped by her circumstances. Each day felt like a battle she was destined to lose. She worked tirelessly at a low-paying, high-stress job that sapped her energy and left her feeling utterly defeated. Despite the immense effort she poured into her work, the fear of losing her job loomed over her constantly, keeping her awake at night. Meanwhile, the weight of debt crushed her spirit. She and her husband had fallen deep into financial struggles, and the strain poisoned their  once-loving relationship. The arguments became daily occurrences—small disagreements over money erupting into full-blown shouting matches. The laughter they used to share became a distant memory. The love that had held them together for so long slowly unraveled, thread by fragile thread.

One night, overwhelmed and broken, she fell to her knees on the cold floor of her bedroom. Desperation coursed through her veins as tears streamed down her face. She clasped her hands tightly, pleading with God to intervene. “Please, God,” she whispered through her sobs. “I can’t do this anymore. Fix my life. End my suffering. Bring me peace. Remove this crushing weight of money problems. Restore the love in my marriage. I can’t go on like this.”

And then, something extraordinary happened. As the room grew silent, a radiant light appeared before her, filling every corner with warmth. God Himself stood before her, calm and glowing with an otherworldly serenity. His presence was overwhelming yet comforting, as if all of her burdens momentarily lifted. He gazed at her with infinite compassion. “I am sorry to see you so unhappy, my child,” He said in a voice that was both gentle and powerful. “What can I do to help?”

Overcome with emotion, she spoke through her tears. “Please, dear God, turn my life around. End my suffering. Bring me peace. Remove my money problems. Restore my marriage.”

God nodded slowly, His expression thoughtful. “I will give you my greatest gift,” He said. “It has the power to transform everything in your life. Do you accept?”

“Yes, God! Please, give it to me!” she cried out, her voice trembling with hope and desperation.

God bowed His head, radiating divine reassurance. Then, as suddenly as He had appeared, He began to fade, vanishing into the night like a dream slipping away at dawn. The room grew quiet once again, leaving her sitting in the stillness, unsure of what had just occurred but clinging to the promise of a better future.

A year passed, but the transformation she had hoped for didn’t come. Instead, her life spiraled further into chaos. Her job—already a source of stress and despair—disappeared as her company downsized. The bills piled up relentlessly, each one a reminder of her worsening circumstances. Credit card companies began calling daily, their voices cold and insistent, demanding payments she couldn’t make. The weight of losing her home became a looming threat, every month bringing her closer to foreclosure.

The ultimate betrayal came when her husband, the one person she had hoped would weather the storm with her, walked out. He left her for another woman, shattering what was left of their marriage and leaving her alone in every sense of the word. The house that had once been filled with love and laughter was now silent and hollow, filled only with the echoes of what she had lost.

She sat in that emptiness, wondering how everything could have gone so wrong. Hadn’t God promised to help her? Hadn’t He said His gift would transform her life? Yet here she was, more broken than ever before, left to face a world that seemed to crumble further with every passing day.

One night, at rock bottom, she collapsed on the floor, tears streaming down her face, and wailed at the heavens. “God, you lied to me! You promised me your greatest gift, and yet my life is worse than ever! You abandoned me!” Her voice cracked as she screamed into the emptiness, her body shaking with sobs.

But there was no answer. No sign. Just silence.

Empty, exhausted, and defeated, she dragged herself to bed, her body heavy with despair. As she stared at the ceiling, her mind racing, a quiet thought emerged, almost like a whisper: “No one is coming to save me.” The realization took her breath away. She lay still, letting the words sink in. And then, something shifted deep within her—a faint flicker of resolve.

She forced herself to get up, her muscles protesting with every movement. She stumbled to the shower, letting the warm water run over her as if it could wash away the weight of her pain. She dressed in fresh clothes, something she hadn’t done in days, and sat at the kitchen table, staring blankly ahead. Slowly, her chaotic thoughts began to settle as she sat in silence, thinking, reflecting, for what felt like hours. She thought about the life she once dreamed of, the person she used to be, and the passions she had buried long ago.

Almost instinctively, she climbed the rickety stairs to the attic, a space she hadn’t visited in years. Dust danced in the sunlight streaming through the small, dirty window as she unearthed boxes filled with forgotten memories. Digging deeper, her hands brushed against something familiar—the smooth handle of a paintbrush. She pulled out her old paintbrushes and paints, long buried beneath the dust of forgotten dreams. Her heart ached as she looked at them, but something inside her urged her forward.

And so, she began to paint.

At first, it felt strange, almost foreign, but as the bristles moved across the canvas, something cracked open inside her. Hours passed in a blur as her pain, her grief, and her hopes poured onto the canvas, transforming into breathtaking beauty. She painted through the night, her hands steady and her heart lighter with each stroke. The next morning, she looked at her work—raw, powerful, and alive. For the first time in years, she felt a spark of purpose.

Days turned into weeks, and she painted every chance she could, her home filling with vibrant canvases. The act of creating became her lifeline, her refuge. Finally, one day, she decided to take a leap of faith. She gathered her paintings, loaded them into her car, and set up a small display in the local park. As people strolled by, they stopped to admire her work.

A couple approached her, their eyes drawn to a bold, emotional piece. “How much?” they asked, their voices filled with genuine admiration.

She hesitated, her mind swirling with self-doubt, but then she spoke boldly. “Three hundred dollars.”

The couple exchanged glances and checked their pockets. “We only have two hundred,” the man said apologetically.

She took a deep breath, then nodded. “Sold,” she replied with a small smile as they handed over the cash.

Moments later, an elderly man approached, his gaze fixed on another painting. “How much for this one?” he asked, his tone warm but firm.

“Five hundred dollars,” she heard herself say, her voice steady. She braced herself for rejection, but without a second thought, he handed her the money with a kind smile.

The hours flew by, and by the end of the day, she had earned $4,700. She stared at the stack of cash in her hands, disbelief and gratitude washing over her. For the first time in a long time, she felt something she thought she had lost—a spark of hope.

Walking back to her car with her remaining paintings, she realized it wasn’t just about the money. It was about rediscovering herself and remembering her own strength. Her art had given her a way to transform her pain into something beautiful, something meaningful. And for the first time in what felt like forever, she allowed herself to believe that better days were ahead.

Day after day, she painted tirelessly, pouring her emotions and soul onto each canvas. Her paintings began to sell—first slowly, then all at once. The money rolled in, more than she had ever dreamed of earning at her old desk job. With determination, she paid off her debts piece by piece, securing her home and putting an end to the sleepless nights of worry. Over time, her passion and effort bore greater fruit. She saved enough to open her own art studio—a space she had once imagined but never thought possible. Business boomed.

It wasn’t long before other artists took notice. They approached her, asking to display their work in her growing studio. Grateful for the opportunity to support the creative community, she welcomed them, taking a 30% cut from their sales. As her reputation grew, so did her success. Soon, she had accumulated enough wealth to do the unthinkable—she purchased the very building she had once rented, the same building she had nervously walked into years ago, doubting whether she could make it.

Now, the tables had turned. Tenants paid her rent, which not only covered the mortgage and taxes but also left her with a comfortable profit. The woman who had once been on the brink of losing everything was now thriving, unshakable, and deeply proud of what she had built with her own two hands.

One quiet night in her studio, as the world outside was still, God appeared to her again.

“I have been watching you, my child,” He said, His voice warm and calm. “You seem happy.”

She froze, overcome with emotion as she looked up. “Happy?” she echoed, her voice breaking. “I nearly lost everything! My husband abandoned me when I needed him the most. I lost my job. I struggled through so much pain and uncertainty. You promised me your greatest gift, but you left me to figure it all out on my own!” Tears welled in her eyes, the weight of her journey rushing back to her all at once.

God smiled gently, His presence filling the room with peace. “But don’t you see? I gave you my greatest gift. I gave you self-reliance.”

She stared at Him, stunned into silence, her mind racing.

“The adversity you faced,” He continued, “was not a punishment. It was the force that unlocked your potential. It made you rise above your circumstances. It pushed you to tap into talents you had long ignored, to take control of your life with courage and determination. It made you strong. I did not abandon you—I empowered you. You now stand on your own, unshaken, unafraid, and truly free.”

His words hung in the air, sinking deeply into her heart. She thought back to the sleepless nights filled with doubt, the countless times she had been on the verge of giving up, and the days of relentless effort that had brought her here. Slowly, understanding dawned on her. Everything she had achieved, everything she had built, came not from a divine handout, but from within herself—the strength she never knew she had.

For the first time in a long while, she felt a deep, unshakable peace. At last, she understood. She smiled softly, tears streaming down her face—not from sadness, but from gratitude. God had been with her all along, quietly guiding her toward the person she was meant to become.

Adversity is not a curse; it is the catalyst for greatness.

As a leader, take this lesson to heart. No one is coming to save you. Your success, your freedom, your wealth—it’s all in your hands. The moment you accept full responsibility for your life, the moment you embrace the power of self-reliance, you will unleash unstoppable momentum that cannot be derailed by obstacles, setbacks, or doubts.

Steve Jobs once said, “I’m convinced that about half of what separates successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance.” That perseverance comes from within. It is not handed to you; it is built through struggle. It is tested in moments of failure. It is the fire that forges you into something greater, someone who can rise above challenges and conquer what others call impossible.

Adversity doesn’t exist to break you—it exists to build you. With every challenge you face, you are given an opportunity to adapt, to grow, and to prove to yourself that you are capable of more than you ever imagined. The greatest gift God, the universe, or fate could ever give you is the ability to bet on yourself, to trust in your own capacity to learn, to evolve, and to succeed.

Understand this: the life you dream of isn’t handed to anyone on a silver platter. It is earned, every single day, through consistent action, discipline, and focus. You can’t wish your way to greatness, and you certainly can’t wait for someone else to make it happen for you. Success belongs to those who show up, who do the work, who refuse to be defeated no matter how hard the road gets.

So here’s your call to action: Stop waiting. Start moving. Show up every day, even when it’s hard. Do the work, even when it feels endless. Master your craft, because excellence is what separates the leaders from the rest. Build your business brick by brick, knowing that every small effort compounds into something massive over time. Stand tall in the face of adversity. Welcome it as a teacher, as a necessary part of your journey, and let it shape you into the leader you were born to be.

Your dreams, your goals, your vision for the future—they are worth fighting for. But remember, they are not given; they are earned. The life you dream of requires you to be relentless, to persevere when others quit, to see opportunity where others see obstacles.

It starts with self-reliance. It begins when you decide to take ownership of your life and refuse to let anything hold you back.

Now, go make it happen. The leader you’re destined to become is already within you—waiting for you to take the first step.

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